David Sheff writes this memoir from the perspective of a
father going through hell. His smart and
charismatic son Nic becomes addicted to meth, but both father and son are in
denial about the seriousness of Nic’s drug habit. Bouncing from rehab to
relapse over and over again, ad infinitum, Nic’s problems become his father
David’s problems, and David’s obsession with Nic’s life has a profoundly
detrimental effect on the rest of the family, including Nic’s much younger
half-siblings. At one point, thanks to a
comment from another Al-Anon member, David realizes that if Nic were in jail,
at least David would know where he is. David’s
life is basically an endless rollercoaster that parallels Nic’s progress and
regression. At some point he has to
accept the fact that Nic’s recovery is in Nic’s hands. This book may be
recommended reading for parents and family members of addicts, but I am
neither, and I still found it to be riveting.
I also liked the fact this book is not a tearjerker at all, and I am
someone who cries over rom-coms. It is
told in a clear-eyed fashion with many musings on what happened to Nic to cause
him to become an addict and what David and his family could have done
differently. The bottom line is that no
one really knows the cause or the solution.
I found it interesting that bootcamp-type rehab facilities are among the
least effective. The AA philosophies
seem to be the most effective, but no addict is ever cured, so that the
possibility of relapse looms threateningly for the rest of his or her life. As hopeless as all this sounds, I found this
to be a beautiful book.
Wednesday, October 31, 2018
Wednesday, October 24, 2018
THE ALICE NETWORK by Kate Quinn
This novel bounces between WWI and the aftermath of WWII,
with a young female protagonist in both time periods. Eve Gardner is prominent in both, but
particularly in the WWI sections, in which she works as a spy against the
Germans. She reappears in the later
sections as an old, jaded, alcoholic who reawakens when young Charlie (short
for Charlotte) enters her life, looking for a long lost cousin, Rose. The two women, plus Eve’s dashing driver
Finn, embark on a quest to find Rose and to put Eve’s demons to rest. Their travels through France lead them to the
diabolical René, who employed Eve as a waitress and unknowingly gave her the
opportunity to eavesdrop on his German patrons.
This book may not be great, because there are a few too many convenient
coincidences. There are some brutal
sections as well, and some tragedies that are told so matter-of-factly that I
wasn’t sure whether to believe them or not.
In fact, the author leads us to believe there will be more fairy-tale
endings than there actually are. Not
that I have a problem with that, but I kept getting my hopes up, only to have
them dashed. Perhaps the best thing
about this novel is that some of it is true.
In fact, after reading the author’s notes at the end, I was very
impressed with the amount of research she did for this novel and the way she
blended fact with fiction. Some of the
facts are truly heartbreaking, but I so admired the women in this novel who
actually were part of this network in the early 1900s and whose cover was
largely based on the fact that they were women.
I was stunned to find out that, in at least one case, significant
bloodshed could have been avoided if only the generals had believed the
information the women provided. Some things
never change.
Wednesday, October 17, 2018
THE FEMALE PERSUASION by Meg Wolitzer
This novel may be about feminism in the 21st
century or about mentors, but I got something else out of it. For me, it’s about good people doing good
work but still making very serious mistakes with major consequences for their
relationships. Greer, a college
freshman, meets Faith Frank, the renowned publisher of the feminist magazine Bloomer, at the urging of her lesbian
friend, Zee. After Bloomer’s demise, Greer goes to work for Faith in another feminist
venture called Loci, which has venture capital backing that may tilt the
company away from its original premise.
In the meantime, Greer’s longtime boyfriend, Cory, who is really a more
admirable character in the novel than any of the women, experiences the worst
family tragedy imaginable. His only
fault, that I can see, is his inability to include Greer as part of his healing
process. Greer commits one very
egregious sin, but Faith, larger than life throughout the book, shows that she
is capable of inflicting pain in the interest of vengeance. Faith also realizes that compromise may be
required in order to champion her cause of equality for women. In other words, I think she feels that the
end justifies the means, even if she loses a few supporters along the way. I thought the conflicts in this book were
thought-provoking, particularly the life-changing decision that Cory has to
make. However, I think shaving 100 pages
would make this a better novel. On the
plus side, the author does an excellent job of presenting the perspectives of
Greer, Zee, Faith, and Cory, without making the novel choppy or hard to
follow. Ultimately, each character has a
story worth telling, and each of them faces a life-defining crossroads.
Sunday, October 14, 2018
THE WIFE by Meg Wolitzer
What a disappointment.
Joe Castleman and his wife Joan are on their way to Helsinki so that Joe
can accept a literary prize that is a notch or so below the Nobel. Joan is not exactly basking in the glow of
her husband’s success and decides on the flight over that she is finally ready
to divorce him. He has cheated on her
more times than she can count, and I have to ask, “What has taken her so
long?” She abandoned her life as a coed
at Smith College to be with Joe, her married English professor who recognized
that she had talent as a writer. Unfortunately,
Wolitzer telegraphs the wife’s long-held “secret” way too often and too
obviously. The “revelation” at the end
is not a surprise at all and basically robs Joan of all respect from this
reader. I just have a problem with a
smart woman subjugating herself to her husband as she did. I get it that in the 1950s a woman’s career
options were more limited than they are today, but still, for me, Joan is
totally lacking in gumption. Every time
she has a chance to spill the beans, she chickens out, erasing any shred of
credibility she ever had with her children and everyone else, except Joe’s
devoted fans. Wolitzer is an excellent
writer, but in this case I found the storyline to be excruciatingly painful and
frustrating.
Wednesday, October 10, 2018
THE FLIGHT ATTENDANT by Chris Bohjalian
Lately it seems that all novels have a drunken female
protagonist. In this book, Cassie’s
drinking is the reason that she’s unsure if she’s responsible for a
murder. She wakes up in a hotel room in
Dubai with a corpse whose throat has been slashed. She does remember most of the previous
evening, including a meeting the man had with a woman named Miranda. Rather than risk being arrested in a foreign
country, she flees without notifying anyone about the death and heads back to
the States. She’s smarter than her
drinking habits might indicate, though, and retains a good lawyer to help her
navigate the FBI investigation that follows.
This novel may be a departure for Bohjalian, but I thoroughly enjoyed
it. I can’t resist a thriller in the
hands of an excellent writer, and he even throws in a nice twist at the
end. I did keep hoping that Cassie would
curb her drinking, so that she wouldn’t become the dangerous alcoholic that her
father was and so that she would stop making really huge errors of judgment. As in many novels in which characters want to
exonerate themselves of crimes, she does some of her own sleuthing, with an
ineptitude that endangers both her safety and her legal case. I will undoubtedly look at my flight
attendants a little differently the next time I board a plane, especially to
see if they appear to be hungover.
Sunday, October 7, 2018
BEFORE YOU KNOW KINDNESS by Chris Bohjalian
Spencer, an animal rights activist, is accidentally shot by his own daughter, Charlotte, using his brother-in-law's hunting rifle. The irony of this incident overwhelms both families. Spencer’s wife Catherine had been seriously
contemplating divorce before the accident and now is stuck helping Spencer with
everyday tasks like buttoning his shirt.
This novel is certainly not a mystery, but it is suspenseful in its own
way, as the press conference announcing a lawsuit against the gun manufacturer
looms, making everyone but Spencer nervous about how the publicity is going to shame
Charlotte and John, his brother-in-law, even more. I love the
way Bohjalian has woven the guilt into this family drama, along with the
controversy over whether hunting is a good thing, from a population control
standpoint, or a bad thing. He presents
both sides of the argument, and I was curious as to how he would ultimately
resolve this issue that divides the family.
His neutrality may be the most exasperating aspect of the novel, but I
think it’s vital to keeping the family conflict balanced. Some readers may think he leans too far one
way or the other, but I think he does a good job of not alienating anyone. Others may think his sitting on the fence is
cowardly, but I think it’s just smart.
Wednesday, October 3, 2018
CHEMISTRY by Weike Wang
This is the first novel I’ve read in a while in just one
day. In fact, I read most of it in one
sitting, but it’s even shorter than the page count indicates. The unnamed Chinese-born female narrator in
Boston has gone off the rails while working on her PhD chemistry project that
she fears she will never be able to finish.
Her adviser recommends that she pursue a different topic, but instead
she just abandons school and takes up tutoring.
Her long-suffering, always optimistic, live-in boyfriend Eric is way too
patient with her but eventually accepts a job at Oberlin College in Ohio. The narrator seeks the help of a therapist
and pours out all of her resentment against her over-achieving father and
unreliable mother, both unaffectionate and constantly fighting, whom she can’t
bring herself to tell that she has dropped out of school. Her best friend, also unnamed, lives in New
York with her very successful husband and newborn baby, living the married life
that the narrator is not sure that she wants for herself, especially when the
husband moves out to live with another woman.
My take on this is that the narrator is trying to find her way in life
and isn’t sure that she has what it takes to be a true scientist. The specter of her parents’ bitter marriage
has stood in the way of her commitment to Eric, so that now she is basically
committed to nothing. My favorite thing
about this novel is that there are more scientific nuggets of information than
I can even remember, but they are all fascinating. The narrator spends one entire tutoring
session talking about color. In another
session, she describes how radium was originally used to paint glow-in-the-dark
watches. The painters would rinse their
brushes by putting them in their mouths!
Needless to say, radium is very toxic, even in dead bodies.
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